Feelings, emotions and body sensations
What emotions did you feel at the time? How intense were they on a 0-10 scale? What did you notice in your body? Where did you feel it?
Unhelpful Thoughts/Images
What went through your mind? What disturbed you? What did those thoughts or images mean to you, or say about you or the situation? What were you responding to? What 'button' was that pressing for you? What was the worst thing about that, or that could happen?
FACTS that support the unhelpful thoughts
What are the facts? What facts do you have that the unhelpful thoughts are totally true?
FACTS that provide evidence against the unhelpful thoughts
What facts do you have that the unhelpful thoughts are NOT true? Is it fact or opinion? What have others said about this?
Alternative, more realistic and balanced perspective
What would someone else say about this? What is the bigger picture? Is there another way of looking at this? What advice would you give to someone else? Is your reaction proportionate to the actual event? Is this really as important as it seems?
Outcome
What are you feeling now on a scale of 0-10? What could you do differently? What would be more effective? What would be most helpful for you or the situation? What will the consequences be?